{"id":35110,"date":"2023-03-23T14:31:27","date_gmt":"2023-03-23T21:31:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/blog\/?p=35110"},"modified":"2025-01-17T09:30:00","modified_gmt":"2025-01-17T17:30:00","slug":"questions-before-selling-a-house-in-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/blog\/questions-before-selling-a-house-in-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"18 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Selling a House in a Divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Deciding whether to sell a house before or after a divorce is one of the more pressing financial questions couples face when a marriage doesn\u2019t work out.<\/p>\n<p>Ultimately, your individual circumstances will determine whether it\u2019s best to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/blog\/sell-house-before-or-after-divorce\/\">sell your home before or after the divorce<\/a> is final. But no matter the timing, experts agree that it\u2019s important to identify some essential cooperative actions that can lead to a successful sale.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/agents\/dawn-bremer-il-24697926335bd\">Dawn Bremer<\/a>, a top agent in McHenry, Illinois, specializes in helping divorcing or divorced clients. She is passionate about giving her clients the benefit of both her inexperience \u2014 when she was a homeowner whose divorce led to the short sale of her home \u2014 and her current experience as a knowledgeable real estate professional.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n<div class=\"geo-cta widget-cta widget-cta--content     widget-cta--dark widget-cta--dark-blue-gradient\">\n    <div class=\"widget-element--content\">\n        <div class=\"widget-element--content-header\">\n            <img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"homelight logo\" class=\"widget-element--logo\" src=\"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/blog\/wp-content\/themes\/ccprototypev5\/images\/logo-small-cta.png\" width=\"106\" height=\"25\" \/>\n        <\/div>\n        \n                <h3 class=\"cta-headline widget--bold\">Unsure What to Do With the House? <\/h3>\n                        <p>Start with a free home value estimate from HomeLight. Input your address and answer a few questions about your home, and we&#8217;ll provide a preliminary estimate of home value in under two minutes.<\/p>\n        \n                <div class=\"widget-element--buttons\">\n            <a data-type=\"In Content CTA\" href=\"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/simple-home-value\/quiz?#\/qaas=0\/\" class=\"cta-click-track widget-element--button\">Get Estimate<\/a>\n        <\/div>\n                    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>To help you figure out the best path forward, Bremer shares 18 questions to ask yourself before selling a house in a divorce.<\/p>\n<div id=\"section--1\" data-toc-header=\"Identifying your family\u2019s priorities\" data-toc-type=\"head\"><\/div>\n<h2>Identifying your family\u2019s priorities<\/h2>\n<ol>\n<li>How can both spouses best work together to meet the common goal of selling\/getting the most for the home?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li>Are there children who need to stay in their current school or change schools for the next semester?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li>What requirements for other cohabiting individuals in the home (elderly parents, adult children, grandchildren, pets, etc.,) need to be met (i.e., ADA-compliant housing, proximity to public transportation, school district, backyard)?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"4\">\n<li>How long will it take to find those accommodations?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<div id=\"section--2\" data-toc-header=\"Dividing up responsibilities for a successful sale\" data-toc-type=\"head\"><\/div>\n<h2>Dividing up responsibilities for a successful sale<\/h2>\n<ol start=\"5\">\n<li>Who is responsible for updating the other party on the status of the sale?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"6\">\n<li>Who\u2019s responsible for choosing the real estate\/closing attorney?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"7\">\n<li>Who\u2019s responsible for choosing the real estate agent?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"8\">\n<li>Who will pay the mortgage, property tax, and insurance?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"9\">\n<li>Who will pay for and transfer utility bills (water, gas, electric, trash, sewer)?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"10\">\n<li>Who will be responsible for maintaining the property?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"11\">\n<li>When will the house be available for showings?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"12\">\n<li>Who will coordinate showing requests?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"13\">\n<li>Who will pay for any buyer-requested or inspection-required repairs?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><b><i>Note:<\/i><\/b><i> Top-notch Realtors\u00ae such as Bremer often offer concierge service and will take care of many of these responsibilities for a fee that can be collected at closing.<\/i><\/p>\n<div id=\"section--3\" data-toc-header=\"Planning for your move\" data-toc-type=\"head\"><\/div>\n<h2>Planning for your move<\/h2>\n<ol start=\"14\">\n<li>Where will you live after the home is sold?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"15\">\n<li>Who\u2019s going to pay for moving expenses, a downpayment on a new home, or a rental?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<div id=\"section--4\" data-toc-header=\"Understanding the application of your equity \" data-toc-type=\"head\"><\/div>\n<h2>Understanding the application of your equity<b>\u00a0<\/b><\/h2>\n<ol start=\"16\">\n<li>Who\u2019s getting the proceeds from the sale?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"17\">\n<li>Who has access to those assets?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"18\">\n<li>Will the proceeds go to paying attorney\u2019s fees?<b><\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<div id=\"section--5\" data-toc-header=\"Agree on common ground, ground rules, and communicate\" data-toc-type=\"head\"><\/div>\n<h2>Agree on common ground, ground rules, and communicate<\/h2>\n<p>Bremer says the best way to sell the house in a divorce is when the couple agrees to:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Work toward a common goal \u2014 getting the highest proceeds from the home sale.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t let emotional baggage about custody and contentious issues interfere with making good business decisions.<\/li>\n<li>Follow some ground rules (regarding showings, buyer credits\/funds for repairs, and costs of sale issues), so the sale isn\u2019t sabotaged by either party in the future.<\/li>\n<li>Provide honest communication and transparency to each other, the real estate agent, as well as divorce and real estate attorneys.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The willingness to abide by these principles might occur before or after the divorce is final.<\/p>\n<p>Besides trying to time the sale to a period of detente, it\u2019s important to acknowledge other forces such as the local real estate market, kid-related considerations, and your divorce timeline, trajectory, and decree also influence the timing of a sale.<\/p>\n<p>For example, Bremer often finds the ideal time to sell the family home is after the parenting agreement is in place. Once the projected alimony or child support has been decided, the house and other assets can be sold and divided accordingly.<\/p>\n<p>Real estate experts such as Bremer specialize in finding solutions for divorcing or divorced clients. They have experience working with divorce and real estate attorneys, mortgage lenders, and making accommodations for conditions dictated in divorce decrees and custody arrangements.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/find-real-estate-agents\">HomeLight<\/a> can connect you with a top-performing real estate agent who understands these and other nuances of a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/blog\/selling-advice\/divorce\/\">home sale during a divorce<\/a>. We analyze over 27 million transactions and thousands of reviews to determine which agent is best for you based on your needs. Simply <a href=\"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/find-agent\/quiz\/seller?#\/qaas=0\/\">answer a few questions<\/a> and we\u2019ll recommend top expert agents in your area within minutes.<\/p>\n<div id=\"section--6\" data-toc-header=\"Learn more about selling a house during a divorce\" data-toc-type=\"head\"><\/div>\n<h3>Learn more about selling a house during a divorce<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/blog\/sell-house-before-or-after-divorce\/\">Is It Better to Sell Your House Before or After a Divorce?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/blog\/divorce-real-estate-questions\/\">Seasoned Pros Answer Your Top 15 Divorce and Real Estate Questions<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/blog\/how-to-keep-the-house-in-a-divorce\/\">How to Keep Your House in the Divorce: A Step-By-Step Guide<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/blog\/real-estate-agents-specializing-in-divorce\/\">6 Timeless Tips From Real Estate Agents Specializing in Divorce<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/blog\/how-to-sell-a-house-when-one-partner-refuses\/\">\u2018I\u2019m Not Selling!\u2019 Getting the Home Sold When One Partner Refuses<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/blog\/do-i-have-to-sell-my-house-in-a-divorce\/\">Do I Have to Sell My House in a Divorce? See 4 Options<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/blog\/divorce-home-appraisal\/\">Dividing Your Home in a Divorce: Do You Need an Appraisal?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/blog\/real-estate-divorce-specialist\/\">Do I Need a Real Estate Divorce Specialist to Sell My Home?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/blog\/how-to-sell-a-house-during-a-divorce\/\">How to Sell a House During a Divorce: Your Step-by-Step Guide<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/blog\/selling-a-home-in-divorce\/\">Selling a Home in a Divorce? Avoid These 7 Common Mistakes<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><i>Editor&#8217;s note: As a friendly reminder, this blog post is meant to be used for educational purposes only, not legal advice. If you need assistance navigating what steps to take before selling a house during a divorce, HomeLight always encourages you to reach out to your own advisor.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><em>Header Image Source: (iriana88w \/ Depositphotos)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A top agent who specializes in helping divorcing or divorced clients shares 18 questions to ask when making decisions about selling your house in a divorce.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":305,"featured_media":35112,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"content-type":"","cybocfi_hide_featured_image":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[430,319],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35110","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-divorce","category-selling-advice"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v27.0 (Yoast SEO v27.0) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-premium-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>18 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Selling a House in a Divorce<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"A top agent who specializes in divorce home sales shares 18 questions to ask when making decisions about selling your house in a divorce.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/blog\/questions-before-selling-a-house-in-divorce\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"18 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Selling a House in a Divorce\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"A top agent who specializes in divorce home sales shares 18 questions to ask when making decisions about selling your house in a divorce.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.homelight.com\/blog\/questions-before-selling-a-house-in-divorce\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"HomeLight Blog\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/gohomelight\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2023-03-23T21:31:27+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2025-01-17T17:30:00+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/hl-blog.homelight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/questions-before-selling-a-house-in-divorce.png\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"1024\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"546\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/png\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Adrian E. 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