18 House Hunting Tips From Real Estate Experts

Tip 2: Find an amazing real estate agent

Finding an amazing real estate agent may seem like an obvious tip (no one goes out looking for an unremarkable agent), but knowing how to spot an amazing agent is less simple than you might think. A great agent doesn’t just open doors. Rather, they help you read between the lines of listings, spot red flags early, and keep you grounded when emotions start to take over.

The tricky part is that most agents will sound confident, but not all of them will truly guide you through the process in a way that fits your needs.

When searching for real estate professionals, start by reviewing their history. Do they have a strong record of helping buyers close on houses? How long have they been selling in your city?

As you interview agents, ask about the neighborhoods you’re interested in. Do they have an understanding of amenities, walkability, and neighborhood feel?

If an agent doesn’t have a strong selling record or isn’t well-versed in neighborhoods that interest you, then they might not be a good fit. Prioritize finding one who is.

Tip 3: Get your (community) priorities straight

A lot of buyers think the most important part of house hunting is just the house itself. But once you start picturing your day-to-day life over time, it becomes clear how much the neighborhood really shapes your experience.

Instead of picking neighborhoods based only on commute times or where your friends live, pause and think about what you actually want around you. Try making a simple list of “must-haves” and “hard no’s” for your neighborhood.

Sure, that can include things like gyms, schools, or grocery stores nearby, but also think bigger, like the feel of the area and how you want your daily life to feel there.

How close to grocery stores do you need to be, and what type of food shopping do you want to do (corner stores are great, but do you want easy access to produce or good wine?). If you have a dog or like to run, are there parks in the neighborhood that will suit those needs? What about your other interests, like swimming or tango? Are there community spaces or businesses close by that serve those needs?

Keep a working list and be open to adding to it. A lot like Christmas as a kid, you might not get everything you ask for, but it will give Santa, ahem, your agent, a feeling for who you are and what will satisfy you in the long run.

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Tip 4: Think long-term

Think about your relationship with your new home over a few years, not just the moment you move in. There’s a big difference between a starter home you’ll outgrow in a couple of years and a place you’re planning to settle into long-term.

A starter home is usually more about getting your foot in the door, building equity, and figuring things out as you go. A long-term home, on the other hand, needs to adapt as your life changes: new pets, partners, or even kids down the line. That mindset shift can significantly change what you prioritize during your search.

Try to envision yourself three to five years down the line. If your plans include more people in the household (or you’re getting into a hobby that eats up space), then you’ll probably be better off with a bigger home that gives you room to grow.

Tip 5: Don’t shop at the very top of your budget

It’s tempting to stretch all the way to the top of what you’re pre-approved for, especially when it feels like that gives you more options. And honestly, getting that mortgage approval can feel empowering. But even with that cushion, it’s usually smarter to keep your search a bit under your max budget so you’re not constantly feeling squeezed later on.

One good reason to stay low is that unexpected costs can come up at closing and elsewhere in the homebuying process. Moreover, if you’re buying in a competitive market, your real estate agent might advise you to bid higher than the asking price to have a better chance of beating out the competition.

If you are only looking at houses listed at the very top of your budget, you deny yourself the wiggle room to remain competitive, and you leave nothing on the table to cover unforeseen expenses.

Tip 6: Understand the thrill of the hunt

Is the housing market where you’re shopping hot, cold, or somewhere in between? A good way to get a feel for how fast things are moving is to do some online research and consult your agent.

As a buyer, you want a working understanding of how fast or slow to move so that you can pace yourself once you do find a home you think has potential. If you act too slowly, especially in an active seller’s market, the house could be whisked out from under you by a quicker (or more competitive) buyer.

Fortunately for homebuyers, the current market is allowing shoppers some advantages when it comes to “time to think.”

Florida agent Brenda Sheets, who works with over 81% more single-family homes than the average Fort Myers agent, says that deeper think time wasn’t the case in recent years. “We had a saying: if you have to sleep on it, you won’t sleep in it!” she recalls of the red-hot 2021-2022 housing market.

But no matter what the market looks like, leaning too hard into speed and rushing into a decision you’re not fully confident about can backfire. And if you’re in a market where homes tend to sit a little longer, it’s okay to move at a steadier pace, but don’t forget that you don’t have all the time in the world.

All in all, talk to your agent and pace yourself. Find a speed that’s comfortable but won’t leave you in the dust: somewhere between the tortoise and the hare is probably the sweet spot. Even if the market is moving fast, don’t get bullied out of other basic safety precautions: for example, never skip a home inspection in favor of speed.

Tip 7: Remember, you can make changes after you move in

A mantra for house hunting: “Cosmetic changes are my friend.” The heaving, ugly drapes that obscure the south-facing windows? Easy to rip down. The hideous acid yellow in the guest bathroom? Nothing a little sandpaper and primer can’t fix.

When house hunting, focus on realistic upgrades that can actually boost a home without stretching your budget. If you can picture, within reason, how a few small changes could make a big impact, you might start seeing potential in homes other buyers overlook.

This is especially true when you are shopping at a lower price point. Houses that haven’t had a makeover before going on the market will often sell for less because buyers don’t want to commit the time or money to cosmetic upgrades. If you’re willing to dedicate a little elbow grease after moving in, it’s likely you can save yourself a good chunk of money by seeing potential where others see… awful drapery.

Tip 8: But don’t overestimate what you can tackle, repair-wise

There’s a big difference between a few simple cosmetic updates and a full-on renovation. The scale of “fixing up” a home can vary a lot. On one end, you’re just painting a wall, and on the other, you’re repairing a foundation. Knowing where you realistically fall on that spectrum matters before you start falling in love with rough-around-the-edges homes that need way more work than they first appear.

A good rule of thumb: unless you’ve got solid experience with home repairs (or a team that does), it’s usually smart to be cautious about fixer-uppers that could quickly spiral into time, stress, and unexpected costs.

Tip 9: Spend a night or two in several neighborhoods to get a feel for them

Reading statistics, checking school ratings, and scrolling Google Maps will only get you so far. If you have time and a small vacation budget, spend a couple of nights in the neighborhoods you’re considering. Walk around, grab coffee, pop into local shops, and just get a feel for what everyday life actually looks like there. It’s one of the best ways to figure out if a place really feels like home.

If you don’t have the budget for a vacation, but do have friends in the neighborhood, see if they would be willing to let you couch-surf for a night or two. The bonus here is both saving money and getting an insider’s view of year-round living in the area.

Maybe that well-rated school you want your kids to go to is having some serious administrative turnover, or that coffee shop with terrible Google reviews is actually a thriving community hub. Stay during a work week and test out your drive to the office. Is it really 45 minutes door-to-door during peak commute hours?

You won’t know until you go, and even if you think you’ll be flexible to whatever community your dream home happens to be in, neighbors and neighborhoods play a big part in your quality of life post-move-in.

Tip 10: Ask for the options that matter

Lots of people have lots of different needs and concerns when looking at a home. You love your mom, but her sense of safety and concerns surrounding crime demographics might be different than your own. Your childhood friend is great, but do you really trust his take on the “dead” nightlife in the area when his idea of a good time is burgers and brews, and you’ve grown more into the “tapas and chill” phase of eating out?

There’s a balance to be struck here between listening to advice and letting it get too much inside your head. Thank the vocal contributors for their excitement and counsel, but don’t let it sway you away from things you know you want. Not quite an “in one ear and out the other” approach, but do stay grounded and prioritize your unique set of needs.

Tip 11: Pay close attention to the MLS

A good agent will set you up with emails from the multiple listing service (MLS)  that match what you’re looking for, so new listings come straight to you.

Chris Slinker, a Milwaukee-based agent who works with 74% more single-family homes than the average agent in the area, has 18 years of experience matching buyers with homes. A good chunk of that time has been spent fine-tuning his MLS criteria skills.

He says that what he tries to do is create search parameters for his clients that are “so perfect that when they get my automated emails from my search on the MLS, they don’t want to look anywhere else — they feel like I’ve touched all their needs.”

While you can go rogue and look through the MLS or public listing sites on your own, Slinker doesn’t recommend it.

“What I try to do is to stop the buyers from just randomly flowing around on the internet…at 3 a.m., I’ll get an email from a client that says ‘look at the house!’ and then you’ll look it up, and it was sold three years ago.

“The biggest problem we have as agents is: buyers will ask about houses that are actually not available, and then what happens is the buyer becomes confused and agitated,” he adds.

Avoid the confusion and stress by working with an agent who helps steer your home search in the right direction. They can set you up with MLS access, which pulls the most accurate and up-to-date listings in your area. Since the MLS is a shared database of homes listed by agents, it’s one of the best tools you can have while house hunting.

Slinker’s final word of MLS advice? “Make sure that you’re working with a quality agent that knows their stuff and understands your needs.”

Tip 12: Walk through the house in person

Buying remotely can definitely work, but it comes with some pretty big downsides. Seeing a home only through a camera lens doesn’t always give you the full picture, especially when it comes to things you can’t easily spot online. Smells, big ones, like smoke, and less obvious ones, like damp carpets or mildew, won’t come through on a video. Neither will sloping floors, wonky doors, or evidence of other tricks sellers use to sell their homes.

If possible, try to prioritize walking through and getting an in-person feel for the property before moving forward.

As a buyer, you need to remain aware (even in the early stages of house hunting) that your eyes and intuition won’t tell you everything. Even if the house looks fine through video or in person, make sure to get a thorough, professional home inspection during the closing process.

Tip 13: Be honest

Maybe you’re just checking out another agent’s open house and don’t feel like getting pulled into a long conversation, or you’re casually touring a home that’s way outside your budget. Whatever the reason, Slinker has a simple message: don’t lie at open houses. Be upfront instead.

If you lie to an agent at an open house and don’t mention you’re already working with someone else, whether on the sign-in sheet or in conversation, you could potentially get yourself tied to that agent in ways you didn’t expect.

This is due to a rule called the procuring cause law, which basically means the agent who is considered responsible for introducing you to the home could have a claim on the deal if things move forward. It varies by state and can get complicated fast, but the easiest way to stay out of that mess is simple: just say, “I already have an agent.”

Most of the time, though, people in open houses aren’t trying to cause problems. They’re just casually checking out a place, often way outside their budget, and want a little space to look around. Instead of putting down a fake name or pretending you’re actively searching, it’s totally fine to be upfront.

Just say you’re browsing, the home isn’t in your price range, and you’re just curious. That’s completely normal and not against any rules. And being honest helps the agent know to give you space and focus on buyers who are actually ready to move forward.

Tip 14: Keep up on upkeep

Most of us have a good sense of what home projects we can and can’t handle, but it’s surprisingly easy to underestimate the everyday maintenance that comes with a house. It’s easy to fall for the charming details during a showing and completely forget that someone has to do the upkeep once the keys are in your hand.

That house with a meandering walkway surrounded by a garden bursting with life is enchanting upon viewing. But are you really ready for the demands of a front yard that’s bursting with life … and weeds?

The large towering oaks on either side of the house are glorious in the summer, but are you ready to leaf blow, gather, and dispose of their foliage come fall? The white linoleum of the kitchen is fulfilling all your culinary dreams, but are you ready to commit to the sweeping and mopping regimen needed to keep that flawless shine?

Try to think beyond move-in day and picture what it’ll actually take to keep the home looking and functioning the way you want. Be honest and think about “future you.” If you are more of a singular-plant homeowner or a messy kitchen diva, match the care your house will need to the reality of your own comfortable habits.

Tip 15: Watch for costs hiding in plain sight

Remember not to get so focused on the listing price that you lose sight of all the other costs that come along with owning a particular house.

Ask about utility bills and look into what kind of insurance the home would require. Things that don’t jump out during a walkthrough, like poor insulation, flood risk, or wildfire exposure, can show up in the form of expensive insurance premiums or surprisingly high energy bills. And while you’re at it, don’t forget to check for homeowners association (HOA) fees so you have a clearer picture of what owning the home could cost year after year.

Tip 16: Renting? Talk to your landlord

Think outside the box by having a conversation with your landlord. If you’re renting a single-family home from an individual or even if you’re in an apartment and know your landlord has other properties, it doesn’t hurt to ask whether they’re considering selling any of them. You might end up hearing about an opportunity before it ever hits the market.

It’s possible that they have avoided listing due to the headache of dealing with the market, or they simply haven’t been sure they’re ready to sell before your well-timed question arrived. Especially if you’re a great tenant or have a personal relationship with your landlord, asking can’t hurt.

Tip 17: Manage your expectations

Buying a house is a long, sometimes exhausting process. It’ll probably come with a few wrong turns and disappointments before you finally land the right place, so it helps to keep your expectations in line with how slow it can be.

Talk to your agent and get a sense of what closing times look like in your area, as well as what type of housing stock is readily available (and within your price range). Discuss with them how to make a competitive offer once you do find a house that fits.

Tip 18: Stay the course

When the homebuying process starts to feel overwhelming, don’t give up or abandon your checklist. If finding the right home takes longer than expected (and it often does), that’s simply part of the process.

As with other tricky parts of house hunting, talk to your agent. They can help you figure out how your wish list fits with what’s actually available in the area, and even share stories of other buyers who stuck with it and eventually found the right place.

Sheets tells clients who find themselves submitting multiple offers before finally closing on a home: “You don’t quit, I don’t quit. It’s a numbers game. You keep identifying properties, you keep submitting offers.”

It’s good to stay open to the idea that you may need to save a bit more, adjust your budget, or consider neighborhoods you hadn’t thought about before. But at the end of the day, your needs should still be what guides your search. 

Don’t settle for less out of despair, as that’s a recipe for buyer’s remorse. Keep the faith and keep on hunting. Your dream home is out there waiting for your perfect offer.

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The right home is worth waiting for

House hunting can feel exciting one day and completely overwhelming the next, but that’s often just the nature of the process. The key is to stay patient, keep your priorities in mind, and make decisions based on what works for your lifestyle and budget. 

Not every home you tour will be the right fit, and not every setback means you’re on the wrong track. Sometimes, finding the right place simply takes more time than expected. 

Having the right guidance can also make a big difference when you’re sorting through listings, comparing neighborhoods, and weighing major decisions. To make your search easier, connect with a top local real estate agent through HomeLight and get expert help every step of the way.

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